Calgary woman says she was tricked into marriage of convenience
原始发布日期: 2016-04-11 发布者:李方字变大 字变小
Immigration lawyer says sponsorship program needs tweaks to prevent similar situations
Hilwea Sleiman, a Canadian citizen, says she believes Omar Hendous married her so he could become a permanent resident. Hendous, through his lawyer, denies this saying Sleiman is the one that changed her mind. (Supplied) Hilwea Sleiman says she never thought she would become one of those women who got duped by a man from 'back home' using her to get to the land of opportunity, but the 24-year-old Calgarian says in the end, love prevailed and clouded her judgement. Sleiman started getting a funny feeling three days after the love of her life, Omar Hendous, arrived in Calgary from Lebanon. She says he wouldn't unpack his bags and then took off to Edmonton to see his brother. "I was hoping I was wrong," Sleiman tells CBC News. "That he wasn't just here to be in the land of opportunity." Sleiman says she gave Hendous the benefit of the doubt. But when he returned to pick up his suitcases and look for permanent work in Edmonton, she felt she'd been had. "I was one of the girls that used to say, 'Oh my God, I am never going to marry anyone from back home because they all want my green card, right?' That's every girl you might talk to, is going to say that." "And then I don't know what changed my mind. I trusted him, I trusted him a lot. He seemed different." Allegations deniedHendous denies these allegations.His lawyer, Eric Shawar, says Sleiman was the one who changed her mind after Hendous arrived in January of last year. "There was a legitimate marriage between them and ... he's trying to work things out with her " Shawar said. "What I think is going on here, is that she is just trying to escape her responsibilities as a sponsor." Sleiman says the two met in Lebanon in 2011 while she was there attending a cousin's wedding. Their relationship continued to grow while they were living apart and by 2014 they decided to get married.
Omar Hendous and Hilwea Sleiman married in Lebanon in 2014. Sleiman, a Canadian citizen, says she now believes she was taken advantage of. (Supplied) She returned to Lebanon, where according to their cultural traditions, marriage is at least a two-step process. The first part — a Nikah Kitab or Katb Al-Kitab — is a marriage contract. The two are legally married allowing Sleiman to sponsor Hendous to come to Canada as a permanent resident. The second part of the wedding and the consummation of the relationship was to happen in Calgary once he arrived, but Sleiman says Hendous left town before that happened. Hoping to make an exampleNow she's seeking an annulment. And what she calls justice."I'm hoping if he gets deported back he would be an example for every guy or girl back home who thinks of doing this." The federal government's sponsorship program has a two-year conditional period. The law states a couple must live together for two years or the sponsored spouse's status could be revoked. But Citizenship and Immigration Canada relies on complaints to launch an investigation. Sleiman says she filed a complaint in March 2015 and received a file number but has not heard back from the department.
Hilwea Sleiman says after three days in Canada, her new husband Omar Hendous moved to Edmonton. (Supplied) The Liberal government is considering removing the two-year probationary period. Immigration lawyer Michael Greene says what Sleiman says she experienced isn't new, it's been happening since the sponsorship program began but he says there may be a way to help prevent it in the future. "If Canada were to take the position 'You are not coming here until we see the second ceremony' then people wouldn't be able to get out of it so easily." Court fightGreene says if Sleiman receives an annulment, Hendous could face deportation.But Hendous's lawyer plans to fight the accusations in court. He's already filed a statement of defense. "We are saying the marriage did exist, they consummated the marriage, but obviously she is doing this to get [him] out of Canada," says Shawar. Sleiman says she knows of two other women this has happened to, but who were too embarrassed to fight, so she's speaking out to warn others about the dangers of falling in love with someone from back home. |